He's 17 and in his basic training for the British Army and I'm 16 and at home with our 4 week old daughter, she doesn't think we should get married even though we have been together for 4 years... What should I say?How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
Tell her it's what's best for your baby and relationship. Also tell her you guys feel very strongly about each other and can get married when your 18 whether she likes it or not. That's what i'd do.
*PS: your baby has a very pretty name :)How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
Well. I am sure mum means well. But seriously think about the long run of it. Just because you have a kid together doesnt mean you should get married. However 4 years is long time. Maybe you should sit mum down and talk to her heart to heart. Is the any law where you live about becoming and emancipated minor? Which means you'd be able to become legally undependent from mother. Youd have to ahve a job and your own place to rve your mature enough, just something to look into. But really mum loves you and just wants to look out for you. Just let her know you are doing it because you love danny and iona!!!
I would listen to her. Marriage is 50% more likely to end in divorce when the participants are under the age of 24. Four years is a long time, but you'll change more from 16 to 20 than you have from 12 to 16. You have a lot of growing up still to do. Having a child doesn't make you an adult. It makes you a parent. Your mom wants what is best for you. Stay with your boyfriend and wait it out. If, when you're older, you still want to marry him, go for it. But I wouldn't rush into it, especially not at 16.
personally.. there's a part of me that agrees with your mum... BUT if i think about it... you already have a child together... and the worst possible scenario is that you will marry and the marriage fail.. Like a rather high % of the rest of the community anyway....
so.. I THINK I would give you a chance... you are already always going to be linked by your child... so what's to lose??
If you're on here asking total strangers for advice on how to talk your Mommy into letting you get married, then you clearly aren't ready. Wait a few years, grow up some, and then you can do it without her permission.
if you two love eachother, theres nothing she can do.
either you'll stay as boyfriend and girlfriend until youre 18 and can legally get married, or youll get married now. tell her that.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Can a married man and woman kiss during ramadan?
this is asked in the consideration of consuming the partner's saliva.
I'm sorry I couldn't phrase it any other way.Can a married man and woman kiss during ramadan?
During Ramadan? Yes
During fasting? NoCan a married man and woman kiss during ramadan?
My dear friend salam for you.AIn one opinion,a married man and woman during fasting in ramadan can kiss each other, if it is done without lust or nafs.In another opinion it is haram with or without lust if it is done during fasting before break it.Allah does not give us difficulty.
Kissing is a sign of love and respect from a husband to his wife can be done at any time.But sexual relation is haram (not allowed) if it is done dring fasting.Only at night a husband can make a sexual relation with his wife.
According to authentic ahadith husband and wife can kiss eaxh other during Ramadan and fasting. Only intercourse breaks the fast.
Malik's Muwatta 18.5.14
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa from his father that A'isha, umm al-muminin, may Allah be pleased with her, said, ';The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss certain of his wives when fasting,'; and then she laughed.
Hope it answers the question.
Yes if it's a peck on the cheek. Exchanging bodily fluids is haraam during Ramadan from Fajr to Maghrib or if you want English terms from Sunrise to sunset. Anything after sunset to sunrise is hala between a married couple.
If some one kisses like Al Gore kissed his wife on the stage of Democratic Convention will definitely break the fast.
Geneal rule is fast will break if one enjoys kissing his wife during the fast. Just a short peck of kiss doesn't break the fast.
Not during fasting otherwise yes after iftar.
During the time of fast, no. After yes.
Yes One can Kiss his Wife During ramadan But not When Hes Fasting !!
NO, only is it was on the chick ,forehead etc BUT not the lips
yes...but not while they are fastinglips
I'm sorry I couldn't phrase it any other way.Can a married man and woman kiss during ramadan?
During Ramadan? Yes
During fasting? NoCan a married man and woman kiss during ramadan?
My dear friend salam for you.AIn one opinion,a married man and woman during fasting in ramadan can kiss each other, if it is done without lust or nafs.In another opinion it is haram with or without lust if it is done during fasting before break it.Allah does not give us difficulty.
Kissing is a sign of love and respect from a husband to his wife can be done at any time.But sexual relation is haram (not allowed) if it is done dring fasting.Only at night a husband can make a sexual relation with his wife.
According to authentic ahadith husband and wife can kiss eaxh other during Ramadan and fasting. Only intercourse breaks the fast.
Malik's Muwatta 18.5.14
Yahya related to me from Malik from Hisham ibn Urwa from his father that A'isha, umm al-muminin, may Allah be pleased with her, said, ';The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to kiss certain of his wives when fasting,'; and then she laughed.
Hope it answers the question.
Yes if it's a peck on the cheek. Exchanging bodily fluids is haraam during Ramadan from Fajr to Maghrib or if you want English terms from Sunrise to sunset. Anything after sunset to sunrise is hala between a married couple.
If some one kisses like Al Gore kissed his wife on the stage of Democratic Convention will definitely break the fast.
Geneal rule is fast will break if one enjoys kissing his wife during the fast. Just a short peck of kiss doesn't break the fast.
Not during fasting otherwise yes after iftar.
During the time of fast, no. After yes.
Yes One can Kiss his Wife During ramadan But not When Hes Fasting !!
NO, only is it was on the chick ,forehead etc BUT not the lips
yes...but not while they are fasting
How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
He's 17 and in his basic training for the British Army and I'm 16 and at home with our 4 week old daughter, she doesn't think we should get married even though we have been together for 4 years... What should I say?How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
Tell her it's what's best for your baby and relationship. Also tell her you guys feel very strongly about each other and can get married when your 18 whether she likes it or not. That's what i'd do.
*PS: your baby has a very pretty name :)How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
Well. I am sure mum means well. But seriously think about the long run of it. Just because you have a kid together doesnt mean you should get married. However 4 years is long time. Maybe you should sit mum down and talk to her heart to heart. Is the any law where you live about becoming and emancipated minor? Which means you'd be able to become legally undependent from mother. Youd have to ahve a job and your own place to rve your mature enough, just something to look into. But really mum loves you and just wants to look out for you. Just let her know you are doing it because you love danny and iona!!!
I would listen to her. Marriage is 50% more likely to end in divorce when the participants are under the age of 24. Four years is a long time, but you'll change more from 16 to 20 than you have from 12 to 16. You have a lot of growing up still to do. Having a child doesn't make you an adult. It makes you a parent. Your mom wants what is best for you. Stay with your boyfriend and wait it out. If, when you're older, you still want to marry him, go for it. But I wouldn't rush into it, especially not at 16.
personally.. there's a part of me that agrees with your mum... BUT if i think about it... you already have a child together... and the worst possible scenario is that you will marry and the marriage fail.. Like a rather high % of the rest of the community anyway....
so.. I THINK I would give you a chance... you are already always going to be linked by your child... so what's to lose??
If you're on here asking total strangers for advice on how to talk your Mommy into letting you get married, then you clearly aren't ready. Wait a few years, grow up some, and then you can do it without her permission.
if you two love eachother, theres nothing she can do.
either you'll stay as boyfriend and girlfriend until youre 18 and can legally get married, or youll get married now. tell her that.
Tell her it's what's best for your baby and relationship. Also tell her you guys feel very strongly about each other and can get married when your 18 whether she likes it or not. That's what i'd do.
*PS: your baby has a very pretty name :)How to persuade my mum to let me get married to my fianc茅?
Well. I am sure mum means well. But seriously think about the long run of it. Just because you have a kid together doesnt mean you should get married. However 4 years is long time. Maybe you should sit mum down and talk to her heart to heart. Is the any law where you live about becoming and emancipated minor? Which means you'd be able to become legally undependent from mother. Youd have to ahve a job and your own place to rve your mature enough, just something to look into. But really mum loves you and just wants to look out for you. Just let her know you are doing it because you love danny and iona!!!
I would listen to her. Marriage is 50% more likely to end in divorce when the participants are under the age of 24. Four years is a long time, but you'll change more from 16 to 20 than you have from 12 to 16. You have a lot of growing up still to do. Having a child doesn't make you an adult. It makes you a parent. Your mom wants what is best for you. Stay with your boyfriend and wait it out. If, when you're older, you still want to marry him, go for it. But I wouldn't rush into it, especially not at 16.
personally.. there's a part of me that agrees with your mum... BUT if i think about it... you already have a child together... and the worst possible scenario is that you will marry and the marriage fail.. Like a rather high % of the rest of the community anyway....
so.. I THINK I would give you a chance... you are already always going to be linked by your child... so what's to lose??
If you're on here asking total strangers for advice on how to talk your Mommy into letting you get married, then you clearly aren't ready. Wait a few years, grow up some, and then you can do it without her permission.
if you two love eachother, theres nothing she can do.
either you'll stay as boyfriend and girlfriend until youre 18 and can legally get married, or youll get married now. tell her that.
When filing married seperate instead of joint, can we still write off the mortgage interest on one?
we always file married joint, and am trying to file seperate this time because of all of my business expenses. but which one can write off the mortgage?When filing married seperate instead of joint, can we still write off the mortgage interest on one?
On a separate tax return, if one spouse itemizes deduction then other spouse must also itemize deductions.
Read http://taxipay.blogspot.com/2008/04/list鈥?/a>When filing married seperate instead of joint, can we still write off the mortgage interest on one?
Either one but not both of you can deduct the interest on the mortgage. But if one of you itemizes, the other must also - the other person can't claim a standard deduction when filing as married filing separately.
Figure your taxes as joint, and as married filing separately. If the business expenses you refer to are unreimbursed employee business expenses, it's possible that you have one of the rare situations where filing separately is better, unless you would be eligible on a joint return for credits that aren't available if you file as MFS. If the business expenses are for a business one of you runs, then you'll more likely do better with a joint return
Mortgage interest is split between the owners based upon their ownership percentage and how much they actually paid. A married couple filing separately would generally split the deduction between themselves equally. See the instructions for Schedule A for the additional documentation requirements for splitting mortgage interest since only one of your names and SSNs will appear on the Form 1098 from the mortgage company.
The IRS generally won't fuss if one of you claims the entire deduction but keep in mind that if one of you itemizes the other must itemize as well, even if that means taking a Standard Deduction of $0.
Normally the business expenses of one spouse won't materially affect the taxes in deciding to file jointly or separately. In most cases you'll still pay the least total tax on a joint return. The advantage of filing separately in this case is that it isolates each of you from the other's tax liability. That can be a consideration with business income and expenses especially if you're not sure of your spouse's ability to keep accurate business records.
The one who itemizes would take the mortgage interest deduction. If you itemize and your spouse does not, then your spouse cannot take the standard deduction. Generally you end up paying more taxes if you file separately.
You also lose other tax credits if you file separately. See page 22 of IRS publication 17.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p17.pdf
You have to ensure that you were legally entitled to claim the interest. See IRS pub 504.
Even if this is one individual, be aware that *both* spouses must itemize. If all the expenses end up on one tax return, the other spouse puts down $0.
yes
On a separate tax return, if one spouse itemizes deduction then other spouse must also itemize deductions.
Read http://taxipay.blogspot.com/2008/04/list鈥?/a>When filing married seperate instead of joint, can we still write off the mortgage interest on one?
Either one but not both of you can deduct the interest on the mortgage. But if one of you itemizes, the other must also - the other person can't claim a standard deduction when filing as married filing separately.
Figure your taxes as joint, and as married filing separately. If the business expenses you refer to are unreimbursed employee business expenses, it's possible that you have one of the rare situations where filing separately is better, unless you would be eligible on a joint return for credits that aren't available if you file as MFS. If the business expenses are for a business one of you runs, then you'll more likely do better with a joint return
Mortgage interest is split between the owners based upon their ownership percentage and how much they actually paid. A married couple filing separately would generally split the deduction between themselves equally. See the instructions for Schedule A for the additional documentation requirements for splitting mortgage interest since only one of your names and SSNs will appear on the Form 1098 from the mortgage company.
The IRS generally won't fuss if one of you claims the entire deduction but keep in mind that if one of you itemizes the other must itemize as well, even if that means taking a Standard Deduction of $0.
Normally the business expenses of one spouse won't materially affect the taxes in deciding to file jointly or separately. In most cases you'll still pay the least total tax on a joint return. The advantage of filing separately in this case is that it isolates each of you from the other's tax liability. That can be a consideration with business income and expenses especially if you're not sure of your spouse's ability to keep accurate business records.
The one who itemizes would take the mortgage interest deduction. If you itemize and your spouse does not, then your spouse cannot take the standard deduction. Generally you end up paying more taxes if you file separately.
You also lose other tax credits if you file separately. See page 22 of IRS publication 17.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p17.pdf
You have to ensure that you were legally entitled to claim the interest. See IRS pub 504.
Even if this is one individual, be aware that *both* spouses must itemize. If all the expenses end up on one tax return, the other spouse puts down $0.
yes
Is it better to file taxes married jointly or married separate?
Filing jointly will reduce the tax you owe.Is it better to file taxes married jointly or married separate?
Filing jointly will almost always cost you less in total tax.Is it better to file taxes married jointly or married separate?
It's best to do it both ways in pencil; and file the one that saves you money.
It is always better to file jointly. If you file separately it disqualifies you from a lot of credits.
Filing jointly will almost always cost you less in total tax.Is it better to file taxes married jointly or married separate?
It's best to do it both ways in pencil; and file the one that saves you money.
It is always better to file jointly. If you file separately it disqualifies you from a lot of credits.
What do married couples without children do?
I know some married couples who say that their marriage would be boring without kids. So the few that don't want kids, don't they get bored with each other?What do married couples without children do?
Our marriage was not boring before kids, in fact having our son made it significantly more so. (Not that we regret it, we love our son dearly, but we won't be doing the empty nest whining when he goes to college) Kids are great, but they can be boring as h3ll unless you really enjoy things like sponge bob.
We still get a night or two a week to ourselves, we go out with friends, or have dates. We take him places too since he is older now.
I think you only get bored with your spouse when both of you stop trying, not whether or not you have kids.What do married couples without children do?
It's not the kids we miss, it's the absence of the community that grows out around the kids. You know, the friends you make who are other parents, the parents next door, etc. We are definitely bored with each other. We don't have money to travel since we work, and sometimes we wonder if we should have kids just to have a life. Don't worry; we won't make that mistake. But I just want the question-asker to get an honest answer.
Not like the others weren't honest, but they were all happy. I should also say that all our family members are on another coast, and we live in L.A. where even our friends don't have time to hang out with us.
kids are not exactly born for entertainment ya know. They are a lot of work and responsibility. My husband and I can go to the Caribbean on a whim. We go out to dinner without the need for a babysitter and we do not have to spend all of our money on diapers and baby food. Don't get me wrong, we want kids but because we want children and not out of boredom.
Why would they? They got married because they loved each other. People don't get married to have kids...they get married because they want to share their lives. Some decide to have children and others don't. Children don't complete a couple's life..they may add to it, but childless couples are just as complete as those with children.
Go out dancing, go out to dinner, go to the movies, go on vacation (trip abroad), have sex anytime and every time they want to without worrying about hiring a babysitter or having a family member take care of the kids.
Probably not. They can come and go as they please without worrying about a babysitter. Finances are better. Traveling is easy. Freedom is huge without kids. I could go on and on.
Married couples without kids have better sex lives. Enjoy.
Whatever we want. If we decide to up and leave we can go. We also have dog that is fun to play with.
We do whatever we want.
Not boring at all, it's great!
Kids shouldn't be used to ';spice up'; a boring relationship.
Our marriage was not boring before kids, in fact having our son made it significantly more so. (Not that we regret it, we love our son dearly, but we won't be doing the empty nest whining when he goes to college) Kids are great, but they can be boring as h3ll unless you really enjoy things like sponge bob.
We still get a night or two a week to ourselves, we go out with friends, or have dates. We take him places too since he is older now.
I think you only get bored with your spouse when both of you stop trying, not whether or not you have kids.What do married couples without children do?
It's not the kids we miss, it's the absence of the community that grows out around the kids. You know, the friends you make who are other parents, the parents next door, etc. We are definitely bored with each other. We don't have money to travel since we work, and sometimes we wonder if we should have kids just to have a life. Don't worry; we won't make that mistake. But I just want the question-asker to get an honest answer.
Not like the others weren't honest, but they were all happy. I should also say that all our family members are on another coast, and we live in L.A. where even our friends don't have time to hang out with us.
kids are not exactly born for entertainment ya know. They are a lot of work and responsibility. My husband and I can go to the Caribbean on a whim. We go out to dinner without the need for a babysitter and we do not have to spend all of our money on diapers and baby food. Don't get me wrong, we want kids but because we want children and not out of boredom.
Why would they? They got married because they loved each other. People don't get married to have kids...they get married because they want to share their lives. Some decide to have children and others don't. Children don't complete a couple's life..they may add to it, but childless couples are just as complete as those with children.
Go out dancing, go out to dinner, go to the movies, go on vacation (trip abroad), have sex anytime and every time they want to without worrying about hiring a babysitter or having a family member take care of the kids.
Probably not. They can come and go as they please without worrying about a babysitter. Finances are better. Traveling is easy. Freedom is huge without kids. I could go on and on.
Married couples without kids have better sex lives. Enjoy.
Whatever we want. If we decide to up and leave we can go. We also have dog that is fun to play with.
We do whatever we want.
Not boring at all, it's great!
Kids shouldn't be used to ';spice up'; a boring relationship.
Can a married couple make a legal contract where one spouse can purchase property in their name only?
If one spouse wants to buy an apartment with his or her personal life savings, can that spouse make a binding legal contract where that property will remain in his or her possession if the couple divorces?Can a married couple make a legal contract where one spouse can purchase property in their name only?
In most cases, I believe the property would need to be purchased BEFORE the wedding. And remember that even with contracts, pre-nups, and the like, if there are children, then its all up for grabs in a divorce.
Simply put, no one can legally sign away their children's rights to a parent's assets.
Good luck with this one...Can a married couple make a legal contract where one spouse can purchase property in their name only?
If It's a community property state, you're gonna have problems. You should probably check the laws in your state. Especially if you are going to buy land or something like that that has permanence and value. In Texas, it isn't legal. Everything purchased by one spouse automatically shares ownership with the other. She might not need your jock strap, but it's still partly hers.
No, that's why you are legally married, you share in the fortune and loss equally. You seem to be another one that wants it both ways at the same time, are you sure you're not jewish.
In most states, yes.
Community property states, it could be tricky.
In most cases, I believe the property would need to be purchased BEFORE the wedding. And remember that even with contracts, pre-nups, and the like, if there are children, then its all up for grabs in a divorce.
Simply put, no one can legally sign away their children's rights to a parent's assets.
Good luck with this one...Can a married couple make a legal contract where one spouse can purchase property in their name only?
If It's a community property state, you're gonna have problems. You should probably check the laws in your state. Especially if you are going to buy land or something like that that has permanence and value. In Texas, it isn't legal. Everything purchased by one spouse automatically shares ownership with the other. She might not need your jock strap, but it's still partly hers.
No, that's why you are legally married, you share in the fortune and loss equally. You seem to be another one that wants it both ways at the same time, are you sure you're not jewish.
In most states, yes.
Community property states, it could be tricky.
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