with a dog. Could this have caused the HPV? I don't think she has discussed this with the dr, due to the embarassment, but I worry that the lack of knowledge may be endangering her health further. PLEASE any help appreciated.My sister was recently diagnosed with HPV. She is married to a very mental man who has admitted to having sex?
No, animals usually don't carry the HPV virus, but it would be only more than ethical to call the authorities on him for animal cruelty.My sister was recently diagnosed with HPV. She is married to a very mental man who has admitted to having sex?
oh my. i don't know where to start. did she file for divorce? i really don't know what else to say. the HPV virus is very common and can be harbored by humans and animals. which HPV does she have? how old is she? does she have anything else? she could contract some very very bad things that animals carry and wind up in the hospital with that stuff. You need to call the police on him because around the world, that is a crime. He has a sickness and needs help. The dog should be checked out also for signs of abuse.
Strange things people do, but you're sister probably didn't know he was doing that.
HPV= HUMAN Papilloma Virus. Unless the dog did it with another person who actually had HPV.....
Also, HPV can remain dormant for years....even up to 15 or 20 years. She may have caught it from someone in her past, or from him...but don't blame the dog, lol.
loads of people have HPV it's really common. It could increase her chances of developing cervical cancer. I doubt he caught it from a dog! lol!! Is this for real?! If so you should call the RSPCA and have that dog taken away and re-housed so it doesn't get raped again!!
yes, that qualifies as MENTAL!!!
first, the HPV isn't THAT dangerous. she needs to get her paps, but other than that, she should be fine.
however, the poor dog was raped and might have suffered damage! the dog needs a new home!
HPV can also be something that she's had for years, but stress or fatigue could generate symptoms. So no, I don't think it's the dog's fault...but someone should call animal control and have the poor thing taken away before it can be sexually abused again...
Could have if I were I would mention. You should warn your friend about that man. He could be putting her health in jepordy
sure, your best bet is to get the dog checked for hpv.
WTF!
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Can a married couple with kids join the army together?
My fiancee and I are about to get married and we both would like to join the army. I have a child from before the marriage and we have one together. Will we both be allowed to join? And if we cant join together can one enlist after the other?Can a married couple with kids join the army together?
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YES, you can both join the Army and with the kids. You are going to have to do a few thigns though. First off, make sure that you are both married before you enlist. That way the kids have medical care taken care of and you can also get the BAH pay and all that.
Second involves the kids. You will need to be able to give temporary custody of the children to someone else. Hopefully, ya'll have some family that you can trust to take care of the kids while you are gone to basic training.
The best thing for ya'll to do is go in one person at a time. After the first one gets done with the training, get a family care plan going while the other one is gone to training. What this is for is in the event that the one taht is already at the duty station with the kids while the other is in training has to deploy or somethign like that, there will be someone that can take care of the children.
For you both to have a better shot at being stationed at the same place, both of you can enroll in a program called the MACP (Married Army Couples Program). This raises a flag when your branch managers are looking to assign either of you and tells the branch manger that the soldier is married to another soldier and will do the best they can to assign you to the same base. It usually works about 90% of the time.
When you are both at the duty station and out of training, you will need to keep your family care plan for the children. You will need to have someone set up to be able to take care of the children for short term and long term lengths of time. You will also need to have someone that can be a ';backup'; in case the primary persons become not able to take care of the kids.
So yes, you and your fiance can both be in the military together and married to each other with the kids. And no, one of you doesn't have to be in the Reserves. Being in the Reserves you will still have to have the family care plan.Can a married couple with kids join the army together?
Its possible if you both agree and have someone who is willing to care for the kids while you attend basic training. You may want to think about actually BEING married before you enlist. If you are single you may not get stationed together. Being engaged on opposite sides of the world is a recipe for disaster when it comes to marriage. If that's not possible or practicable, then you will have to enlist one at a time.
one of you would have to join the army first while the other one raises the kids then the other person can join ,you might be stationed together but the odds on that are 50/50 depending on what the job you trained for is and you get stationed here in the states .but if you have no kids and join together that might be a whole lot different .
no. one of you will have to go Reserves. you cannot both go AD with kids in the mix.
in fact as it stands right now neither of you can enlist at all as you are both considered single parents. when you get married whoever goes in first will need a waiver for having three dependents unless they go Reserves. and even then they will need a rock solid family Care Plan.
Not that I'm aware of. You would probably have to give up custody for the both of you to join together.
If your married you can enlist after one another. Engaged means single to the army.
Talk to a recruiter and find out their policy. If the Army won't take you, maybe other services will, like the Coast Guard.
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YES, you can both join the Army and with the kids. You are going to have to do a few thigns though. First off, make sure that you are both married before you enlist. That way the kids have medical care taken care of and you can also get the BAH pay and all that.
Second involves the kids. You will need to be able to give temporary custody of the children to someone else. Hopefully, ya'll have some family that you can trust to take care of the kids while you are gone to basic training.
The best thing for ya'll to do is go in one person at a time. After the first one gets done with the training, get a family care plan going while the other one is gone to training. What this is for is in the event that the one taht is already at the duty station with the kids while the other is in training has to deploy or somethign like that, there will be someone that can take care of the children.
For you both to have a better shot at being stationed at the same place, both of you can enroll in a program called the MACP (Married Army Couples Program). This raises a flag when your branch managers are looking to assign either of you and tells the branch manger that the soldier is married to another soldier and will do the best they can to assign you to the same base. It usually works about 90% of the time.
When you are both at the duty station and out of training, you will need to keep your family care plan for the children. You will need to have someone set up to be able to take care of the children for short term and long term lengths of time. You will also need to have someone that can be a ';backup'; in case the primary persons become not able to take care of the kids.
So yes, you and your fiance can both be in the military together and married to each other with the kids. And no, one of you doesn't have to be in the Reserves. Being in the Reserves you will still have to have the family care plan.Can a married couple with kids join the army together?
Its possible if you both agree and have someone who is willing to care for the kids while you attend basic training. You may want to think about actually BEING married before you enlist. If you are single you may not get stationed together. Being engaged on opposite sides of the world is a recipe for disaster when it comes to marriage. If that's not possible or practicable, then you will have to enlist one at a time.
one of you would have to join the army first while the other one raises the kids then the other person can join ,you might be stationed together but the odds on that are 50/50 depending on what the job you trained for is and you get stationed here in the states .but if you have no kids and join together that might be a whole lot different .
no. one of you will have to go Reserves. you cannot both go AD with kids in the mix.
in fact as it stands right now neither of you can enlist at all as you are both considered single parents. when you get married whoever goes in first will need a waiver for having three dependents unless they go Reserves. and even then they will need a rock solid family Care Plan.
Not that I'm aware of. You would probably have to give up custody for the both of you to join together.
If your married you can enlist after one another. Engaged means single to the army.
Talk to a recruiter and find out their policy. If the Army won't take you, maybe other services will, like the Coast Guard.
If Cephus or Peter had a wife and the other Apostles why can't the Priests get married?
(1 Corinthians 9:5) We have authority to lead about a sister as a wife, even as the rest of the apostles and the Lord鈥檚 brothers and Ce鈥瞤has, do we not?
Even Jesus brothers were married.
If the Bible teaches this is what we are supposed to do,then why does the Church forbid it? The Bible says that it is an option but it is never forbidden.If Cephus or Peter had a wife and the other Apostles why can't the Priests get married?
Priestly celilbacy was not made a rule until the 12th century, essentially to resolve some practical problems at the time - see link below.If Cephus or Peter had a wife and the other Apostles why can't the Priests get married?
Jesus asked the apostles to leave all they knew behind, telling them to go out two by two with nothing more than a simple outfit and sandals and preach. Jesus had no flesh and blood brothers. It was thought that celibacy would focus priests on the flock, not having families of their own. It may not work today, but it is a good idea for many men and women who aspire to greater thoughts and fewer worries than sexual entanglements provoke.
It was a choice the Catholic church made. The ';higher ups'; determined that having a wife and children would take away from them keeping their eyes and thoughts fully devoted to God alone.
Paul said he wished that all men would choose to remain unmarried as he did, because once a man has taken a wife his thoughts are turned towards her.
To the best of my knowledge there is no Biblical reason other than the reasoning I just explained.
Gina,
In the time of Moses and Aaron, Aaron and his sons being the first priests, they were married some of them. What happened is that when Jesus came and some of His disciples were already married, but left everything to follow Christ. Remember Jesus cured Peter's mother in law from the fever. As the disciples went and preached the gospel, many took from Jesus a vow of poverty, chasity and purity. Although Eastern Orthodox priest can marry, some don't'. For the Catholic Church its a vow to take to live as Christ lived and that was to devote all they had to Him. Many Saints, such as St. Francis, St. Augustine, all devoted themselves to the service of God. When men enter into the Catholic faith and become priest they vow to live a life such as for Christ only. A man can be married, but if his wife dies, he can become a priest. However, if you are a Priest first, you cannot marry. This is cannon law as handed down by Scripture. to live a life like Christ you sacrifice all things to be a priest.
Peter and the other Apostles basically left their wives to preach the gospel, Jesus even says those who give up children, wives, riches whatever will gain a hundredfold in Heaven---much like Job.
The priest is to be married to the Church ---they stand in for Christ. How can they give everything to his Church without short changing his wife?
Man made rule by the roman catholics.
here are some other man made things not found in the bible:
Purgatory- man made safety net
Pray to Mary- bible says pray to God alone
Pray rosaries- bible says don't pray repetitively
Water baptism washes away original sins
Confess to a man in a booth- pray to God, your priest won't be next to you on judgment day.
good works will save you- our good works are filthy rags in God's eye's
Read the bible for yourself
Good question. I don't believe the New testament teaches we should have priests lord over us. We have a high priest that is Christ (Heb 4:14) and we Christians are priests (1 Pet 2:9). We can approach God all by ourselves. There is no need for another man between us and God because Christ is that one and only mediator (1 Tim 2:5).
Because as the church matures they have new ideas and rules, in the bible people had relations with many people but it's considered a sin now, it's all about who's in charge and how they feel towards things
The reason that the RCC doesn't allow marriage of priests is because they don't want them to will their possessions and money to their family. They want them to leave everything to the RCC.
simply put, the RCC corrupts and changes Everything that God has made, they are contradictory/countefeiters (as satan is as well) hmmmm...hence Revelations....God Bless
So they can have sex with children without committing adultery.
exactly !!!!!!! and we see what it leads to don't we ?? It says a man MAY not marry, IF he feels the need not to....... IF he wants to or needs to he should.......... point blank...... go in peace...... God bless
Luke 14:26.
Better to keep such people away from family altogether.
Because some nuns are hot
It is only the Roman Church that forbids it.
Very fair question.
man-made doctrines not found in the Bible.
Even Jesus brothers were married.
If the Bible teaches this is what we are supposed to do,then why does the Church forbid it? The Bible says that it is an option but it is never forbidden.If Cephus or Peter had a wife and the other Apostles why can't the Priests get married?
Priestly celilbacy was not made a rule until the 12th century, essentially to resolve some practical problems at the time - see link below.If Cephus or Peter had a wife and the other Apostles why can't the Priests get married?
Jesus asked the apostles to leave all they knew behind, telling them to go out two by two with nothing more than a simple outfit and sandals and preach. Jesus had no flesh and blood brothers. It was thought that celibacy would focus priests on the flock, not having families of their own. It may not work today, but it is a good idea for many men and women who aspire to greater thoughts and fewer worries than sexual entanglements provoke.
It was a choice the Catholic church made. The ';higher ups'; determined that having a wife and children would take away from them keeping their eyes and thoughts fully devoted to God alone.
Paul said he wished that all men would choose to remain unmarried as he did, because once a man has taken a wife his thoughts are turned towards her.
To the best of my knowledge there is no Biblical reason other than the reasoning I just explained.
Gina,
In the time of Moses and Aaron, Aaron and his sons being the first priests, they were married some of them. What happened is that when Jesus came and some of His disciples were already married, but left everything to follow Christ. Remember Jesus cured Peter's mother in law from the fever. As the disciples went and preached the gospel, many took from Jesus a vow of poverty, chasity and purity. Although Eastern Orthodox priest can marry, some don't'. For the Catholic Church its a vow to take to live as Christ lived and that was to devote all they had to Him. Many Saints, such as St. Francis, St. Augustine, all devoted themselves to the service of God. When men enter into the Catholic faith and become priest they vow to live a life such as for Christ only. A man can be married, but if his wife dies, he can become a priest. However, if you are a Priest first, you cannot marry. This is cannon law as handed down by Scripture. to live a life like Christ you sacrifice all things to be a priest.
Peter and the other Apostles basically left their wives to preach the gospel, Jesus even says those who give up children, wives, riches whatever will gain a hundredfold in Heaven---much like Job.
The priest is to be married to the Church ---they stand in for Christ. How can they give everything to his Church without short changing his wife?
Man made rule by the roman catholics.
here are some other man made things not found in the bible:
Purgatory- man made safety net
Pray to Mary- bible says pray to God alone
Pray rosaries- bible says don't pray repetitively
Water baptism washes away original sins
Confess to a man in a booth- pray to God, your priest won't be next to you on judgment day.
good works will save you- our good works are filthy rags in God's eye's
Read the bible for yourself
Good question. I don't believe the New testament teaches we should have priests lord over us. We have a high priest that is Christ (Heb 4:14) and we Christians are priests (1 Pet 2:9). We can approach God all by ourselves. There is no need for another man between us and God because Christ is that one and only mediator (1 Tim 2:5).
Because as the church matures they have new ideas and rules, in the bible people had relations with many people but it's considered a sin now, it's all about who's in charge and how they feel towards things
The reason that the RCC doesn't allow marriage of priests is because they don't want them to will their possessions and money to their family. They want them to leave everything to the RCC.
simply put, the RCC corrupts and changes Everything that God has made, they are contradictory/countefeiters (as satan is as well) hmmmm...hence Revelations....God Bless
So they can have sex with children without committing adultery.
exactly !!!!!!! and we see what it leads to don't we ?? It says a man MAY not marry, IF he feels the need not to....... IF he wants to or needs to he should.......... point blank...... go in peace...... God bless
Luke 14:26.
Better to keep such people away from family altogether.
Because some nuns are hot
It is only the Roman Church that forbids it.
Very fair question.
man-made doctrines not found in the Bible.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Already married but parents dont know. How do they not find out?
I am already married but no one knows yet, and our parents are throwing us a wedding. How do we get around them not finding out?Already married but parents dont know. How do they not find out?
Wow um, eventually it will come out, but for now just act like it never happened I know that's hard but you have to. I don't entirely know your situation or circumstances though.Already married but parents dont know. How do they not find out?
Divorce and then marry again? Why did you get married without your parents knowing?
I think you should just come clean.If you are old enough to get married then you are old enough to be responsile for your marrige.When you were getting married did you not think about their feelings and how you probably disappointed them.I think its time you just had a talk with them and come clean.
why would you do such a thing in the first place?
i'm sure you're old enough to know better than to lie to your parents, they will be heartbroken when they find out the truth, you could of caused them less pain by just telling them as soon as you planned on getting married.
ummm they're probably going to need to know eventually! in a few months tell them you didnt want to make a big deal about it and that you just eloped.
Ummm don't tell them it's kinda simple, as long as no one knows and your not going to say anything then they won't find out...but why would you go get married anyways knowing that your parents are throwing you a wedding, you could just tell them so that they don't have to waste anymore money on a wedding
its best thing if you will tell the truth
uh maybe just tell them
Just go through with the wedding, you'll get married twice, so what!!
First of all..parents are really naive so I would say just don't wear the ring and don't say anything to any one because news gets around.
There's so much I want to say here, but I will stick to answering your question directly.
There is no way to prevent them from finding out. You are already married, and it's a matter of public record. If they were suspicious and went looking for an answer, they could very easily find out. In addition, they're probably going to wonder why you can't get a marriage certificate (since you are already married).
Your date you got married is the Day you ';Secretly'; got married. Now, just dont say anything. People will be celebrating your anniversary, when they attended your ceremony and reception. Its normal to get married before the wedding. My husband and i did the same thing, just different reason. We were in love, and didnt need the whole Party and family who didnt care really. We were getting married because of our love, and companionship. Thats all we needed. After 3 years of Dating and living together...We were getting married. My husbands parents didnt like the fact that I wasn't Jewish or converting to Judaism, So they hold a grudge at me. Never said Congrats when we got engaged, just asked how much the ring costed. We told them $25. they were like thats good.lol It was a $2500 bridal set, that was discounted to 740 for valentines day. They were finding every excuse for us not to get married with a big wedding. So My Husband and I went to the courthouse 1 year and 1 month ago, and got married.
We thought it would be nice to tell them at their Christmas Party in front of my brother and Sister in law 2 months after we got married. They were shocked. They didnt know what to do, besides tell me Welcome to the family. I said thank you to his parents along with: ';Now your stuck with me until your death do you part';
Our whole year of our first marriage we've been so sick and we're going to do Vow Renewal, and Do the whole gown and tux thing next December 2010...GOOD LUCK!
Well, if they were suspicious they could easily find out because marriages are a matter of public record, and they will likely be suspicious when you can`t get a marriage license. The best thing to do is keep mum and `get` the marriage licence yourself.
Then why didn't you tell your parents? Sorry mate you are on your own. Your parents cared for ya to actually throw you guys a wedding but you had to go behind their back. Good luck with that
For once be honest with them.tell them.and go ahead with their plan. a gathering I suppose minus the wedding since you already had been.wed. This will make them happier .
Don't tell them.
Dedicating your life to another person is a very private decision. You chose to just ';get-er-dun';, right away, on your own. Congratulations.
It sounds like you didn't have a family reception though. Now it's time to spread the joy, assuming you're into it.
Tell your officiant that you want to renew your vows publicly. Tell him what else is going on too.
Tell your parents or don't.
It's not like they don't approve. You just have to figure out if they'll take the news better now, or later. Don't count on never .
If I was the daddy... Oh well, I missed it the first time around. I understand it wasn't me you were marrying. I'll get over it.
Can I throw you a party anyway? I'm sure I'll tear up at the ceremony and probably on the dance floor too. Is that ok? I'm happy for you. I don't think I'm ready for a baby shower yet though.
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They absolutely will find out on the day of the wedding when you tell your officiant that he cannot fill out another mariage license.
U should just tell them before they spent a fortune on ur ';wedding';. Or Just tell then that your not ready to get married.
Who has to know? Were you married at the courthouse alone? Won't it be nice to have a wedding?
Let your family celebrate your marriage with you. The legal part is over, now it's time for the party!! Just don't sign a second marriage certificate!
On a side note, I did the legal stuff in the courthouse the day before my wedding. A church wedding is about celebrating with family and making public promises of love and loyalty while surrounded by people you love. ';Marriage'; and ';Wedding'; are two different concepts.
well that's being very sneaky if you don't tell them if it were me I'd be Honest and tell them.
My sister and her husband got married 7 months before their wedding. They didn't tell anyone for several years. When some of the close family found out, they were very upset that they were not in on the secret (we're talking ten years later!).
I say, tell them!
You MUST tell your parents now, they may still want to throw you a reception, but why should you have them fork out a bundle of money on a wedding when you are already married?? They will be hurt if they find out afterwards.
IF YOU JUST GOT MARRIED YOU CAN NULL THAT MARRIAGE AND GET REMARRIED. OR IF YOU GOT MARRIED THROUGH THE COURT U SHOULD BE ABLE TO GET MARRIED THROUGH CHURCH NO PROBLEM.
dont tell them?
Best to 'fess' up now..they will eventually find out and when they do, especially if it's after the wedding they've paid for, they will be quite pissed and very hurt that they were not only cheated out of seeing you marry for real, but that they were deceived so you could do the big white pouffy wedding dress princess for a day thing. They will feel used and rightly so.
Shameful to deceive them in such a way...with that attitude, you don't deserve the wedding they are willing to pay for.
72 hours before the wedding the officiant will ask you to meet with him or her and provide the marriage license. you will not be able to provide. the s*%26amp;^ will really hit the fan then.
why are you wasting people's valuable time and money?
also, fraud will get you into legal trouble with your university financial aid and with the IRS. you are committing fraud, dear. Its a crime. have fun in federal prison!lips
Wow um, eventually it will come out, but for now just act like it never happened I know that's hard but you have to. I don't entirely know your situation or circumstances though.Already married but parents dont know. How do they not find out?
Divorce and then marry again? Why did you get married without your parents knowing?
I think you should just come clean.If you are old enough to get married then you are old enough to be responsile for your marrige.When you were getting married did you not think about their feelings and how you probably disappointed them.I think its time you just had a talk with them and come clean.
why would you do such a thing in the first place?
i'm sure you're old enough to know better than to lie to your parents, they will be heartbroken when they find out the truth, you could of caused them less pain by just telling them as soon as you planned on getting married.
ummm they're probably going to need to know eventually! in a few months tell them you didnt want to make a big deal about it and that you just eloped.
Ummm don't tell them it's kinda simple, as long as no one knows and your not going to say anything then they won't find out...but why would you go get married anyways knowing that your parents are throwing you a wedding, you could just tell them so that they don't have to waste anymore money on a wedding
its best thing if you will tell the truth
uh maybe just tell them
Just go through with the wedding, you'll get married twice, so what!!
First of all..parents are really naive so I would say just don't wear the ring and don't say anything to any one because news gets around.
There's so much I want to say here, but I will stick to answering your question directly.
There is no way to prevent them from finding out. You are already married, and it's a matter of public record. If they were suspicious and went looking for an answer, they could very easily find out. In addition, they're probably going to wonder why you can't get a marriage certificate (since you are already married).
Your date you got married is the Day you ';Secretly'; got married. Now, just dont say anything. People will be celebrating your anniversary, when they attended your ceremony and reception. Its normal to get married before the wedding. My husband and i did the same thing, just different reason. We were in love, and didnt need the whole Party and family who didnt care really. We were getting married because of our love, and companionship. Thats all we needed. After 3 years of Dating and living together...We were getting married. My husbands parents didnt like the fact that I wasn't Jewish or converting to Judaism, So they hold a grudge at me. Never said Congrats when we got engaged, just asked how much the ring costed. We told them $25. they were like thats good.lol It was a $2500 bridal set, that was discounted to 740 for valentines day. They were finding every excuse for us not to get married with a big wedding. So My Husband and I went to the courthouse 1 year and 1 month ago, and got married.
We thought it would be nice to tell them at their Christmas Party in front of my brother and Sister in law 2 months after we got married. They were shocked. They didnt know what to do, besides tell me Welcome to the family. I said thank you to his parents along with: ';Now your stuck with me until your death do you part';
Our whole year of our first marriage we've been so sick and we're going to do Vow Renewal, and Do the whole gown and tux thing next December 2010...GOOD LUCK!
Well, if they were suspicious they could easily find out because marriages are a matter of public record, and they will likely be suspicious when you can`t get a marriage license. The best thing to do is keep mum and `get` the marriage licence yourself.
Then why didn't you tell your parents? Sorry mate you are on your own. Your parents cared for ya to actually throw you guys a wedding but you had to go behind their back. Good luck with that
For once be honest with them.tell them.and go ahead with their plan. a gathering I suppose minus the wedding since you already had been.wed. This will make them happier .
Don't tell them.
Dedicating your life to another person is a very private decision. You chose to just ';get-er-dun';, right away, on your own. Congratulations.
It sounds like you didn't have a family reception though. Now it's time to spread the joy, assuming you're into it.
Tell your officiant that you want to renew your vows publicly. Tell him what else is going on too.
Tell your parents or don't.
It's not like they don't approve. You just have to figure out if they'll take the news better now, or later. Don't count on never .
If I was the daddy... Oh well, I missed it the first time around. I understand it wasn't me you were marrying. I'll get over it.
Can I throw you a party anyway? I'm sure I'll tear up at the ceremony and probably on the dance floor too. Is that ok? I'm happy for you. I don't think I'm ready for a baby shower yet though.
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They absolutely will find out on the day of the wedding when you tell your officiant that he cannot fill out another mariage license.
U should just tell them before they spent a fortune on ur ';wedding';. Or Just tell then that your not ready to get married.
Who has to know? Were you married at the courthouse alone? Won't it be nice to have a wedding?
Let your family celebrate your marriage with you. The legal part is over, now it's time for the party!! Just don't sign a second marriage certificate!
On a side note, I did the legal stuff in the courthouse the day before my wedding. A church wedding is about celebrating with family and making public promises of love and loyalty while surrounded by people you love. ';Marriage'; and ';Wedding'; are two different concepts.
well that's being very sneaky if you don't tell them if it were me I'd be Honest and tell them.
My sister and her husband got married 7 months before their wedding. They didn't tell anyone for several years. When some of the close family found out, they were very upset that they were not in on the secret (we're talking ten years later!).
I say, tell them!
You MUST tell your parents now, they may still want to throw you a reception, but why should you have them fork out a bundle of money on a wedding when you are already married?? They will be hurt if they find out afterwards.
IF YOU JUST GOT MARRIED YOU CAN NULL THAT MARRIAGE AND GET REMARRIED. OR IF YOU GOT MARRIED THROUGH THE COURT U SHOULD BE ABLE TO GET MARRIED THROUGH CHURCH NO PROBLEM.
dont tell them?
Best to 'fess' up now..they will eventually find out and when they do, especially if it's after the wedding they've paid for, they will be quite pissed and very hurt that they were not only cheated out of seeing you marry for real, but that they were deceived so you could do the big white pouffy wedding dress princess for a day thing. They will feel used and rightly so.
Shameful to deceive them in such a way...with that attitude, you don't deserve the wedding they are willing to pay for.
72 hours before the wedding the officiant will ask you to meet with him or her and provide the marriage license. you will not be able to provide. the s*%26amp;^ will really hit the fan then.
why are you wasting people's valuable time and money?
also, fraud will get you into legal trouble with your university financial aid and with the IRS. you are committing fraud, dear. Its a crime. have fun in federal prison!
What do you think about sex with a married LDS Mormon woman 31?
She is serious and very eager always. Of course, me too.
She is pretty. She says her husband can't take satisfy her and she is at an age that needs good sex, but honestly I think she herself is inexperienced and is not adventurous. I am also afraid she will get attached too easily and I have no interest in taking her away from her husband. She says she understands it is for fun.
Her mormon LDS man will never know either way.
Please, serious answers only.What do you think about sex with a married LDS Mormon woman 31?
I think you should go ahead and give her what she want,but be willing to accept the repercussion that may follow. It appear to be inevitable.What do you think about sex with a married LDS Mormon woman 31?
Her relationship has some issues... and not really something I would get caught up in. Sex is a serious thing. If she is not satisified at home, and reaches to another man for comfort in something she is missing i would say thats risk. She could get emotionally attached, then having sex with a pretty lady may not be your only issues. Plus on a side note she is married. She needs to have a talk with her husband as crazy as it may seem. It could be her, or it could be lack of communication when it comes to sex. She might think he doesnt want it, and he might be thinking the same thing.
Don't do it. It is wrong on so many levels. She will get attached. She will not know how to handle the emotions and just keep it fun. Women lie to get what they want we all know that.
I had a married Greek girl that I was having a casual sexual relationship fall for me and it had the potential to get very messy. It can easily get out of hand. Might not but this does not sound like it would end well.
She is married. Whether happily or not, satisfied or not, she is married. Whether you or her wants her to leave her husband, he is likely to find out. You really don't need to be messing up her life, or her husbands for fun. Get your kicks elsewhere.
How would you feel if you found out your partner was cheating on you?
She is stained in so many ways she doesnt even know right from wrong, Shes gone against her faith, her marriage, her family, her husband and you think she wil honor you...just for fun? Youve never picked up on chicks and lied have you? Also shes bound to have a chnage of heart towards her faith and she WILL break down dragging you through the mud and vile too. Run, run far far away.
Find a single woman to screw, and don't mess up your karma by fooling around with a morally deficient person who is so selflish. Why waste time with someone who isn't worth being with in the first place, because they think cheating is okay?
Even for a meaningless fling, I would have no desire to play with someone like that...a single, available person is the way to go. Don't mess with trash.
buy her a bullet vibrator TELL her how to use it and send her back to her husband untouched that is not a situation you wanna get into man IT is wrong and they always find out!!!! What happens when she tries one of the tricks you taught her on him? He's gonna find out where she learned it right? like i said 9volt battery bullet and send her back to him!
That is wrong dude.She is Married!That would be considered Adultry.
Trust me they always find out!!
Not a good idea - find someone that's not married!
if i were you i would do her all the time
Stay far, far away this!
Sounds good to me , what's her number ?
run Forest run and never look back
She is pretty. She says her husband can't take satisfy her and she is at an age that needs good sex, but honestly I think she herself is inexperienced and is not adventurous. I am also afraid she will get attached too easily and I have no interest in taking her away from her husband. She says she understands it is for fun.
Her mormon LDS man will never know either way.
Please, serious answers only.What do you think about sex with a married LDS Mormon woman 31?
I think you should go ahead and give her what she want,but be willing to accept the repercussion that may follow. It appear to be inevitable.What do you think about sex with a married LDS Mormon woman 31?
Her relationship has some issues... and not really something I would get caught up in. Sex is a serious thing. If she is not satisified at home, and reaches to another man for comfort in something she is missing i would say thats risk. She could get emotionally attached, then having sex with a pretty lady may not be your only issues. Plus on a side note she is married. She needs to have a talk with her husband as crazy as it may seem. It could be her, or it could be lack of communication when it comes to sex. She might think he doesnt want it, and he might be thinking the same thing.
Don't do it. It is wrong on so many levels. She will get attached. She will not know how to handle the emotions and just keep it fun. Women lie to get what they want we all know that.
I had a married Greek girl that I was having a casual sexual relationship fall for me and it had the potential to get very messy. It can easily get out of hand. Might not but this does not sound like it would end well.
She is married. Whether happily or not, satisfied or not, she is married. Whether you or her wants her to leave her husband, he is likely to find out. You really don't need to be messing up her life, or her husbands for fun. Get your kicks elsewhere.
How would you feel if you found out your partner was cheating on you?
She is stained in so many ways she doesnt even know right from wrong, Shes gone against her faith, her marriage, her family, her husband and you think she wil honor you...just for fun? Youve never picked up on chicks and lied have you? Also shes bound to have a chnage of heart towards her faith and she WILL break down dragging you through the mud and vile too. Run, run far far away.
Find a single woman to screw, and don't mess up your karma by fooling around with a morally deficient person who is so selflish. Why waste time with someone who isn't worth being with in the first place, because they think cheating is okay?
Even for a meaningless fling, I would have no desire to play with someone like that...a single, available person is the way to go. Don't mess with trash.
buy her a bullet vibrator TELL her how to use it and send her back to her husband untouched that is not a situation you wanna get into man IT is wrong and they always find out!!!! What happens when she tries one of the tricks you taught her on him? He's gonna find out where she learned it right? like i said 9volt battery bullet and send her back to him!
That is wrong dude.She is Married!That would be considered Adultry.
Trust me they always find out!!
Not a good idea - find someone that's not married!
if i were you i would do her all the time
Stay far, far away this!
Sounds good to me , what's her number ?
run Forest run and never look back
Im married to an Air Force man and we have 4 kids. Can i join the Air Force too?
I am 26 and im married to a man who is in the air force. We have 4 children together and im wondering if i can join the air force too. Ive always heard that if you have too many dependents, that they wont accept you, but is it different if youre married? Or if you have a spouse that is already a military member?Im married to an Air Force man and we have 4 kids. Can i join the Air Force too?
Yes you can, ask your recruiter about the joint spouse program.Im married to an Air Force man and we have 4 kids. Can i join the Air Force too?
I am in the Air Force and I know for a fact that you would be able to join no problem. It is called Joint Spouse. One of my good friends is 27 and married to another Airmen and in the Air Force. You will both be stationed at the same base, BOTH will get single rate BAH and BAS. Not to bad of a deal! They also will only deploy one at a time because of the kids. Go for it! You will love it and make bank!
First time I've ever heard of that.
I think the cut off age is 26 years old or so. You better check with a recruiter fast because I see no reason why you can't join. If there is a valid reason why you can't join, the recruiter will tell you.
There are bonuses when it comes mil-to-mil. Such as TLE(temporary lodging expense), instead of just getting 10 days, you get 20 days. The reason being because both of you can claim 10 days of TLE when PCSing. There are probably some other bonuses, but can't think of them off the top of my head at the moment.
I donlt agree with Lisa either, as long as hubby is willing to take th ekids and you become duel-military then I see no problem, if the AF won;t take you then the army will. The only problem you will have is while you are at training if your husband suddenly gets deployed, you wil ahve ot have someone else standing by to take the kids.
No you can't join. It doesn't matter how many kids, they wouldn't take you if your husband was already in.
If you both went in before you had kids, then it would be fine.
There are many instances where spouses of families with with 3-4 kids have decided to go into the .mil. A family plan will be required. A recruiter will have to help you with the specifics. Good luck to you!!!
Probably not. Your husband won't count as dependent since he's in, but the four kids would.
Have you ever heard of birth control???
Yes you can, ask your recruiter about the joint spouse program.Im married to an Air Force man and we have 4 kids. Can i join the Air Force too?
I am in the Air Force and I know for a fact that you would be able to join no problem. It is called Joint Spouse. One of my good friends is 27 and married to another Airmen and in the Air Force. You will both be stationed at the same base, BOTH will get single rate BAH and BAS. Not to bad of a deal! They also will only deploy one at a time because of the kids. Go for it! You will love it and make bank!
First time I've ever heard of that.
I think the cut off age is 26 years old or so. You better check with a recruiter fast because I see no reason why you can't join. If there is a valid reason why you can't join, the recruiter will tell you.
There are bonuses when it comes mil-to-mil. Such as TLE(temporary lodging expense), instead of just getting 10 days, you get 20 days. The reason being because both of you can claim 10 days of TLE when PCSing. There are probably some other bonuses, but can't think of them off the top of my head at the moment.
I donlt agree with Lisa either, as long as hubby is willing to take th ekids and you become duel-military then I see no problem, if the AF won;t take you then the army will. The only problem you will have is while you are at training if your husband suddenly gets deployed, you wil ahve ot have someone else standing by to take the kids.
No you can't join. It doesn't matter how many kids, they wouldn't take you if your husband was already in.
If you both went in before you had kids, then it would be fine.
There are many instances where spouses of families with with 3-4 kids have decided to go into the .mil. A family plan will be required. A recruiter will have to help you with the specifics. Good luck to you!!!
Probably not. Your husband won't count as dependent since he's in, but the four kids would.
Have you ever heard of birth control???
What is your opinion on staying cellibate until married?
Just a poll on your opinions about it. Would it bother you if you were dating someone with this belief?
Is it something you would personally consider? Or even something you would accept easily and understand if someone you knew chose to do this?
ThanksWhat is your opinion on staying cellibate until married?
Im a guy,
but not like all the other guys i kno, i would never pressure a girl into sex or even bring it up for that matter.
a girl that'll put out to early i kno i can't be with, but if i really love her and we've been together a long time and she wants to, yeah
but only if she wants to.
And no i wouldn't care, im actually trying to meet girls like that i can't believe girls like that still exist, Girls that put out are all to common.
Is it something you would personally consider? Or even something you would accept easily and understand if someone you knew chose to do this?
ThanksWhat is your opinion on staying cellibate until married?
Im a guy,
but not like all the other guys i kno, i would never pressure a girl into sex or even bring it up for that matter.
a girl that'll put out to early i kno i can't be with, but if i really love her and we've been together a long time and she wants to, yeah
but only if she wants to.
And no i wouldn't care, im actually trying to meet girls like that i can't believe girls like that still exist, Girls that put out are all to common.
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