Is it wrong to have casual friendship with a married guy?

Especially if it's long distance. I don't know his wife since I met him in a delivery from my office but we have stated we are friends and like to keep in touch. He's military but he's like very friendly and has never said anything shady to me, just friends.


But we like to update in stuff going on. Not a big email guy, just send little short notes saying Hi and stuff.


Can a friendship be going on without harm?Is it wrong to have casual friendship with a married guy?
its a dangerous situationIs it wrong to have casual friendship with a married guy?
only if his wife is aware and you are friends with her as well. i generally do not trust the motives of married men who wander into an office one day and just start passing out their email address... doesn't it make you wonder what the real story is? sounds to me like he needs to have some backup in his little black book in case things don't work out with his wife.
Don't increase your relation. It is not good at all. If he love his wife and your feeling increases to loves then you will be badly hurt and you will be not able to pay attention in your married life or in future marriage life. If he start loving you then he is cheating his wife and he can cheat you in future. Or it can be that your feeling and relation can break his married life. Think!!!! from all side its your loss. BEAWARE OF SUCH RELATION.
Ask his wife if she's down with it - chances are she wouldn't be unless they have an open marriage.





If he's spending time visiting with you - whether it's long distance or up close and personal, it doesn't matter. The time he's giving to you, he isn't giving to his marriage.



I am a millitary wife. My husband delivers parts. Not saying this question is one and the same. If it was me I would like to know. My husband has been odd for the past few months now. I would like to check his work email and / or stop in, but I can't. My guy is quite charming, but trust me there is a back story.





Right now this seems harmless, but I wouldn't let it get more chummy. I'm in utah by-the-way LOL email me if you are to richins1987@comcast.net
Well I don't know. I mean my husband has acquaintances from work but for him to actually talk with them outside of work as ';friends';, that just doesn't fly with me. From experience in the past with my husband a ';friendship'; with the opposite sex will most likely lead to something further
I say yes...as long as both parties agree mutually that it will be friends and you respect his relationship with his wife and vice versa.
ok answer this...if you were the wife how would you feel if I was the friend he had? and I just said everything your asking about. would you be ok with us? Didnt think so.. so yeah its gotta stop.
Most men ARE NOT CAPABLE of the ';just-friends'; thing.
Yeah I think his wife should know about it. Other than that - I have no reason to say no:)