Thursday, May 13, 2010

Should a married woman have the right to control what her husband does?

with his own body when he's with someone else ~ as long as she's not affected?Should a married woman have the right to control what her husband does?
Just like abortion, she can have her opinions but since it's his body he can do whatever he wants.Should a married woman have the right to control what her husband does?
';With his own body when he's with someone else...';





When you ask the question like that, it makes it sound like you're doing something questionable with your body. What do you mean she's not affected? Is she not affected physically/mentally/emotionally? Because all of those things matter.





A woman has no right to control her husband's actions. She should trust her husband enough to not have to control what he does. In return, a husband should love his wife enough to never do anything that would cause her to question that trust.
At the end of the day it's not a yes or no question because we're talking about emotions, not logic.





My opinion is that if two people aren't willing to go out of their way to make sure they understand eachother's feelings, then they probably shouldn't be married.





What is ';control'; in this case? And what is she trying to control exactly?





If you mean masturbating while in a chat room or looking at pornography, then I would say that a woman doesn't have the right to control what a man does with himself when it truly does not affect her.





But, I believe the ';right thing to do'; so to speak is to understand that there would probably be a reason for her to feel that way. Maybe she doesn't want you to masturbate because she wants to have more effect on you sexually. Or maybe she is very uncomfortable with the idea of you looking at the bodies of other women, even if it is something trivial. (yes, I am calling porn trivial under the assumption that there is rarely any intention of meeting or personally interacting with a porn star)





Ultimately marriage is about equal, commited, partnership. If a wife is willing to respect her husband's wishes, he should respect hers.
You mean like smoking, chewing tobacco and substance abuse including booze, promiscuity and risking infections and bringing STDs home, not seeking proper medical care when needed or engaging in health care practices like monthly testicular exams when younger and prostate exams when older, gluttony and inactivity, engaging in risk taking behaviors such as speeding, fighting, physical contact sports or going off to die or be maimed in a war? Gosh, hasn't that always been the way men have had it with their bodies without regard whatsoever for the opinions of the women who love them?
*Yawn*.





I'm assuming you're making an allusion to abortion? The reason women have the right to say whether they want an abortion or not is because the baby is in THEIR body, not yours. Until men can give birth or squeeze babies out of their asses, they cannot tell a woman what to do in terms of an abortion. If you don't like it, feel free to protest by locking yourself in your room and crying in the fetal position.
If you are married then it is presumed that neither of you are doing anything with your bodies with other people. When you do it is called adultery. Americans try to make it sound less serious by calling it 'cheating', but adultery is still adultery whatever you call it.
No one has the right to control anyone. However, it would be ethically wrong (in my opinion) for a man to go and have an affair with a hooker when he has promised himself to his wife. It WILL hurt her. Especially if the hooker happens to have a STI. And it will most likely end in divorce.
Sure as long as he is alone when he does it. It cannot be something that endangers another. Marriage is a partnership and everything should be open to discussion. The couples married 25 plus years live by this rule.
Legally? No. But she has every right to divorce him. The same goes if the situation is reversed.
Who says she DOESN'T? C'mon, mate, that's what NAGGING is all about.
No.
no woman will tell me what to do with my body.

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