Saturday, January 23, 2010

How do you know when you and your partner are ready to get married? We've been together 3 years now.?

We have a baby as well. Is that a good enough reason?How do you know when you and your partner are ready to get married? We've been together 3 years now.?
I think parents should do whatever it takes to make their baby's life OK.


You are 'ready' to get married when you both have learned the skills it takes to be really good, responsible parents or are at least willing to learn those skills and behaviors.


Marriage is not the point - good, responsible parenting is the whole point.


Get married or not.........just be or learn to be good parents to your little, dependent, powerless, innocent, deserving child.How do you know when you and your partner are ready to get married? We've been together 3 years now.?
you know when you are ready when you are physically, emotionally and spiritually set. if you have all these things combined together then you can get married. because then you are ready to work for your family, ready to accept what the future will bring , accept the challenges in life together with your family and a stable life with them.





good luck
so you have a baby together, but do you have a relationship together. What kind of example will you be setting for your baby, if not for the love of the two of you? Having a baby is not a reason for getting married. Although, it would have been better for the child if the two of you were more stable together, before having a child.
If your bond is strong enough and your love is even stronger than the bond. People are married these days just because but you have to know why you want to marry someone and it is not all based off having a baby by the person. More than 50% of marriages ends in divorce today so choose wisely.
Do it if/because you want to, nobody is testing whether you reason is ';good enough'; or not
Love is a good reason. IT's better to get married first, then have the baby though.

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