Thursday, January 21, 2010

How soon is to soon to get married?

I'm doing this kind of court case thing at school. I'm doing sort of a survey and was wondering who thinks that love at first sight is the best way of finding your true love. But my real question is... When you first meet someone you don't just think that second I'm going to spend the rest of my life with you? So I'm asking What is the right amount of time you think two people should know each other before marrying?How soon is to soon to get married?
you can't out a time limit on it. if a couple is truelly in love and they can make things work, then they can get married. sometimes it takes a very long time before things can work out right.How soon is to soon to get married?
You should live together for several years, then if you need to get married for insurance or loan requirement purposes, do it, but not before. After several years,you decide that you don't want to be with any one else, then you can start considering it. Let the ';seven year itch'; pass before deciding. Don't have kids. They will over stress a relationship every time. Who would actually want to bring a child into this overcrowded, polluted world? That's the definition of child abuse! Wait. That's the best answer.
Well, i think the amount time that two people should get married is when they know everything about each other, when there is real love, faithfulness and honesty between them, when they are very sure that they want to spend the rest of their life together and build a family. It could be a year or two ,even more , it depends on how their relationship are getting along, and how strong their love are for each other.
well i dont believe in love at first sight thats for sure. i think it takes time to develope to love someone you need trust communication friendship a life together and being able to have a life of your own. i cant put a time limit on when ppl should marry but i think you should date for 1-2 yrs and live with eachother for awhile before getting married. you dont really KNOW someone till' you have lived with them. so if i had to put a number on it id say 4 to 5 yrs
my hubby and i got engaged 6 weeks after meeting, and married 7 months later we had our wedding, we have been married 3 years and have 2 kids, and going strong. then there are friends of ours that dated for YEARS and got married only to end it in divorce less then a year later.








its not how long a couple dates before getting married that counts but the amount of effort and work they put into their marriage, cause marriage IS work.
I'd say at least a year. I know people who have only known each other for 2 weeks and got married and they have been married for atleast 20 years and enjoy every minute of it. Depends on the couple. In the end a marriage is going to be work and its all about the couple making a committment and putting in the effort to make it work.
There is no such thing as love at first sight. I personally think wait 1 year and six months. That would be only if it was a healthy relationship.
most people say a year. We got married after only three weeks but it wasn't love at first sight cause I barely noticed he was alive the first time I met him. I think a year is good but more is ok to.
I think that anything less than a year is too soon, but it really depends on the individuals.
At least a year.

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