How do you tell your parents and future in laws that ur getting married?

my fiance mother is very protective and she doesn't think before she speaks. But at the same time she's a great person . He's the only child and it's hard for he understand that she's not the only women in he's life. It is he's fault for not telling about how serious we are, but anyway he ask me to marry him and he don't know how to tell her because it's gonna a big surprise!


Now my mother is easy going and understanding!


I'm a college student mind you


Please give adviceHow do you tell your parents and future in laws that ur getting married?
How about that wat a great dinner and oh we're getting married. then step back and see who catches her when she faintsHow do you tell your parents and future in laws that ur getting married?
You are not going to like it.....





I think you should think very carefully before marrying a man who has this type of relationship with his mother. He won't tell her he is becoming serious enough to propose, and she is too protective. He won't stand up to her when she starts getting into your marriage. The guy has no guts - not that it should take guts to express to your parents how you feel about a woman. He's being a weenie, and I guarantee you are not getting the full story.
Let him break the news to his parents. And...he really should ask your parents for THEIR PERMISSION before finalizing any plans with you.





In order to have family peace, you really need both extended family's approval. You'll be leaning on both sets of parents for assistance in the future.





So let him take the lead in this matter...both to confront his mother, and to request permission from your parents.





Good Luck!
Announce it via email the day after the wedding ceremony...lol.





That's what I did.
Tell her she going to be a grandma
suck it up and do it.