When a married friend says she wants to cheat, or a single friend says she wants to help a married guy cheat?

Do you try to talk them out of it, stay neutral, or what?When a married friend says she wants to cheat, or a single friend says she wants to help a married guy cheat?
You can't make anyone do anything. We try to hard to change people and make them do what we want, when we have absolutely no control over anyone but ourselves.





All you can do is express to your friends what you're feeling in your heart. And what you're feeling in your heart is NOT ';you're going to ruin your life and his life!'; ';You're crazy!!!'; ';I can't believe you'd do this!'; ';I don't respect you anymore!';...what's in your heart is love for them, isn't it? Otherwise, why would you care? Don't give them your opinions...give them your love and respect, and if they do go through with it, try to shift your way of thinking so that what they've done is not a violation of your trust or respect for them. Of course, if you are not interested in being friends with someone who would do this, then you can peacefully remove yourself from the friendship. But if you want to make it work, all you can do is love them. They are going to make mistakes, we're human.When a married friend says she wants to cheat, or a single friend says she wants to help a married guy cheat?
No, you can't talk them out of what they WANT to do. See when your married or a married person is looking outside the marriage then he/she is unhappy with what they have or just unhappy seeing, doing, ect with they lover, so when someone is looking OUT side the marriage then, you can't really talk them out of it. They have to do it and experience it 4 themselves and have the feelings that its wrong. Cause you telling them really not going to change their minds on cheating. Men or Women that cheat are emotionally unattached with their lover!





Women have to be emotionally and sexually attached





Men just sexual and other thing but men like sex! They are tired of the bull s h i t that some wife's throw at them and they just want a unattached female single, that GIVES it UP, and that they don't have to committed to!
Try to talk them out of it. Tell them you are concerned bc of the bad consequences. And if they don't want to listen, find a new friend.
try talking to them and give them a reason if that dose not work grab a video camera a lawn chair sit back and video tape the whole thing and then put it up on youtube
I wouldn't want them as friends, because I'd always have to watch them around my man. I would just stay away from them both if they're that disloyal.
Just let them ruin their life. It will be a trainwreck for sure and that will be really fun to watch.