Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years he's 17 and im 19. We are very committed to each other and love each other dearly. I know those aren't the only reasons to get married but it is a start. Him and I wanted to get married in about two years when he's about 19 and im 21. I know its a matter of opinion but is that two young to get married?What age is too young to gert married?
I'm tempted to say that you are too young for marriage if you aren't mature enough to proofread your own question and use proper spelling and grammar.
In all sincerity, I got married at 28, and I have since decided that, at least for a guy, anything less than 30 is too young. Your boyfriend should live a little before he gives up control of his life. He will regret it in years to come if he doesn't.What age is too young to gert married?
I'm 19 right now and my boyfriend is 24, we've been together completely happy for over a year now, but I wouldn't want to be married at this age. I'm still in school trying to graduate and he doesn't have a completely stable career. I don't think deciding on marriage is necessarily all about the age...I think it depends on where you two are in your lives at the time. A new marriage seems like it would be very stressful at times and I think being done with school and having stable careers would be important to help minimize some of the stress.
I think it is important to remember you aren't on a time crunch when it comes to deciding to get married, you should take your time and make sure you have accomplished the things you want to get done first. I hope this helps you.
Like you said, it is completely a matter of opinion and depends on the two individuals involved. My husband and I dated for about a year and a half before our wedding. He's 24 and I'm 19 and we are extremely happy together! So if you both keep feeling the same way about each other and you have the same goals in life and share important things in common then I say more power to you! Don't let anyone tell you that you're too young to get married if you are prepared to make the commitment and do all of the things that come along with it (cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc possibly working secularly as well)
I think its vital that both of you get some ';real life'; experience before you tie the knot. I think someone should be completely on their own and paid their own bills for 2 years before getting married. If you both just get jobs out of high school, then 19 and 21 would probably be close enough.
The reason I think its good to live on your own for a few years is that it helps you understand better if they have the qualities you really need. You might love and adore them in high school. But once you're both out in the working world and you realize they're perfectly content working at Pizza Hut and blow their whole paycheck on video games, it will probably change your mind if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone with so little drive and motivation and such poor financial skills.
If you're in high school or still in college, its harder to know how the person will really be once they're out from under mom and dad's roof and money.
when you don't have to ask strangers when it's a good time to get married.
you are still young. enjoy your freedom and live life.
Just head for the alter already
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