Is it normal to be married for 16 yrs and your spouse not be affectionate towards you,?

what can i do to improve this relationship. i need more attention.Is it normal to be married for 16 yrs and your spouse not be affectionate towards you,?
Unfortunately it happens more often then anyone wants to admit. We become in a rut. Go our separate ways sometimes and don't put enough effort in the relationship. Tell your spouse what your feeling. Communication is the key. Don't just hope things will improve...take steps to improve it yourself. Hope this helps...Is it normal to be married for 16 yrs and your spouse not be affectionate towards you,?
i totally understand your situation..and yes it is perfectly normal..before i go into further details..there are things that has to be stable for your life to go SMOOTH and GREAT with your spouse...Communication,Eye contact,Sleep and Physical contacts...





are u both still communicating? if u guys are, there is no reason why u shud post this qn....there is only one reason why there is less affectionate..firstly, u guys lost touch of whats going on in each other's life...this is the reason why u guys loss the sense of feeling for each other...when this happens, there is nothing else to show..(thus, no physical affections)...





Think abt this, have the both of u changed your daily life routines?? probably before this, u guys used to talk before bed and during breakfast in weekends..but now are u guys still practising the habits?? do u still talk before bed? do u still do what u used to do??





NExt most impt thing is eye and physical contact...have u stopped looking at each other's eyes? Do u still rmbr how it felt when u were on a first date and how u guys sparked conversations and all of a sudden there is a moment when u guys looked str8 into each other's eyes and u felt something deep within?? well, what happened to that after 16 years?? U need to have the chemistry again...a relationship specialist once told me,';a hug a day keeps the break ups away';





Did u noe that hugs or cuddles or kisses are the daily dosage of making relationship last longer?? Yes it is true..me and my spouse are practising this habit...even if we didnt kiss evreyday, but i AT LEAST touch his hand when we were watching TV or when we're in a crowd/public transport...





Last but not least, Sleep..are u both sleeping together? or isit she sleeps first then u go to sleep?? u need to both sleep together...it creates this bonding...and wake up together...this gives her the msg that u guys are doing things together again..





After 16 yrs of being together she might have thought that u noe her and she noes u....so there is nothng else to show...but little did she noe that u guys would just end up getting further and further away from each other...





I wish u all the best..It takes time..but try to do all the things above...bit by bit...u lasted 16 yrs with her..im sure u noe wat turns her on and what keeps her smiling...text her during the day asking her out for dinner(like when u guys were dating last time) would do a great trick....and u fetching her at her door to eat dinner at a great place...its a callback for the memories u guys had..





ALL THE BEST.
Does your spouse like to be kissed? Try kissing your spouse for 10 seconds every time you get a chance - most especially as you are going out the door.





Women sometimes withhold affection because while a kiss may be sufficient for them, many men see it only as a preliminary to getting laid. Kissing is romantic. Most women - and many men - want this romance.





Know that lots of women - and men - suffer from a low libido. Yet they don't want to schlep to the doctor for a script.





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NOT NORMAL AT ALL.JUS TRY TO FIND OUT WHAT IS THE REASON BEHIND SUCH A RELATIONSHIP...


MAYBE YOU R NOT UNDERSTANDING HER OR SHE IS NOT TRYING TO UNDERSTAND YOU.YOU NEED TO TAKE THE HELP OF SOME SPECIALIST
Why are you waiting 16 years to ask this?
oh my god, i've been married for 2 years and i won't go anywhere near my nasty *** wife.